In
America March 19 is always celebrated as Saint Joseph’s Day. (Saint
Joseph was the symbolic, but not birth, father of Jesus.) In Italy March
19 is also celebrated as Father’s Day. My Grandmother Theresa taught me
the customs of the Italian celebration of this Christian Feast Day.
Saint Joseph’s Day always falls during Lent, so the food served on this
day never has meat, and the food that is served represents the harvest
so no cheese is served. Therefore, the pasta which is traditionally
served is sprinkled with bread crumbs rather than cheese.
I remember Grandma asking me on one Feast Day if I knew why bread crumbs
were used on the food, instead of another non-cheese seasoning
“No, Grandmacita,” I answered wonderingly.
“Because the bread crumbs symbolize the sawdust Saint Joseph –and Jesus
would-- create when they sawed wood to make furniture for their
customers in Nazareth,” she smiled.
Saint Joseph was also chosen the patron saint of Italy. One year, I
think in the Middle Ages, there was a terrible drought in the country
and people fervently prayed to him to save their crops and restore the
virtually empty water wells. In an almost-mystical response to the
ardent pleas of the devout peasants, massive rain showers soaked the
parched land. Like Saint Joseph, Saint Patrick became the patron saint
of Ireland when he was said to have driven out all the snakes in the
country.
Grandma Theresa taught me to always wear red on Saint Joseph’s Day.
Italians wear red on that feast day in the similar religious-based
tradition that the Irish wear green on Saint Patrick’s Day!
There is another wonderful custom that my Grandmother faithfully
practiced and passed down to me: If you pray to Saint Joseph and he
answers your prayers, you must thank him by preparing a feast in his
honor and asking others to eat from a table we call a “Saint Joseph’s
Table”.
Traditionally, the grateful petitioner then opened their front door and
hung out a red flag so that anyone could enter their home and eat at the
Table until they were satisfied. For obvious reasons, at 7244 S.
Prairie Avenue, only invited guests were able to dine at the Saint
Joseph’s Table.
This Feast Day was the one time my family members could invite
acquaintances outside the family to come and eat. There were no chairs
placed at the table. Diners would take a plate, fill it and, after
eating, put the plate in the kitchen and leave. Then Grandma, Aunt Maffy
and I would wash the dishes and place them back on the table for the
next guests.
“What are we celebrating this year, Grandmacita?” I asked her one year.
“We are celebrating that your Uncle Al is getting stronger and healthier
every day,“ she replied solemnly. “I have said nine novenas for him”,
she added.
The nine novenas leading up to Saint Joseph’s Day is another custom. A
novena is a special prayer that you would say over and over during the
day for nine successive days. Each day you said a different prayer.
Each year I went to Saint Philip Neri parochial school on Saint Joseph’s
Day wearing a red ribbon pinned to my blue uniform, and that was before
ribbons were in! Other children would ask me why I wore the red ribbon
and I would tell them it was because I was Italian and it was St.
Joseph’s Feast Day. I was the only Italian in my class. They also knew I
was a Capone, so I think they believed that meant something sinister.
One year our oldest son Kevin had to have open heart surgery when he was
seven and, due to post-surgery complications, spent a couple of weeks
in intensive care in Children’s Memorial Hospital. In the next bed to
our son was a beautiful infant boy, named Victor, whose parents
virtually lived in the parents lounge with us during that time.
We leaned on each other for support. When my son would have a setback,
their son rallied and vice versa. Their relatives, her sister and
brother-in-law, would often bring home-made dago red wine to help us
relax!
We were allowed to visit Kevin for only 5 minutes every two hours. Late
one night as we approached his bed in intensive care, we saw doctors and
nurses frantically working over him. He was hemorrhaging. They wouldn’t
let us near him and pushed us back out of the room. A few minutes later
we saw one of the doctors leaving.
“Is our son Kevin alright?”
“He’s still breathing.” He replied coldly in his east Indian accent. Then he turned and walked away.
We couldn’t get any answers from anyone, so I called our pediatrician
who said he would check and call us back. About 30 minutes later he
called to inform us that Kevin was now out of danger.
Victor’s parents were very religious. So they did a novena to Saint
Joseph and promised a Saint Joseph’s Table in celebration. Customarily,
three persons represent The Holy Family at the Saint Joseph Table. (The
parents knew I was Italian, but I never told them
of my heritage while we were together in the hospital.)
A few years later the wife called me long distance, we had since moved
away from Chicago, and said,“ Deirdre, I would like you to come to my
home and represent the Virgin Mary at the St. Joseph’s table we are
having to celebrate Victor’s recovery.
On that day, I said to her, “My Grandma taught me the custom of a Saint
Joseph Table as a young girl and we did have people play the roles of
the Holy Family. Thank you for having me be such an important part in
the celebration of the answer to your prayers for your son, Victor.”
I flew into Chicago on March 19th and drove to their home.
The table in their dining room was decorated as I remember my Grandma
decorating her table. There were the traditional breads and sweet
raviolis. People began arriving in the late afternoon. There were so
many happy people and Victor himself played the baby Jesus.
As the celebration began to wind down Victor’s mother approached me.
“Deirdre, you never told me what your maiden name was”, she said.
“Capone, as in ‘Al Capone’”, I smiled. “He was my uncle.”
I never heard from those people again
Thursday, March 20, 2014
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St. Joseph's Day 2014
St. Joseph the
patron saint of Italians
St. Joseph’s Day in the Capone home
St. Joseph’s Day, March 10, 2014
I prefer to think of myself as spiritual rather than
religious. But I do believe in the power of prayer, so I offer you here the
prayer to St. Joseph that my Grandma Capone claimed brought miracles.
O St. Joseph, whose protection is so great, so strong, so
prompt before the Throne of God, I place in you all my interests and desires. O
St. Joseph, do assist me by your powerful intercession and obtain for me from
your Divine Son all spiritual blessings through Jesus Christ, Our Lord, so
that, having engaged here below your Heavenly power, I may offer my
Thanksgiving and Homage to the most Loving of Fathers. O St. Joseph, I never
weary contemplating you and Jesus asleep in your arms. I dare not approach
while He reposes near your heart. Press him in my name and kiss His fine Head
for me, and ask Him to return the Kiss when I draw my dying breath. St. Joseph,
Patron of departing souls, pray for us. Amen
Below are three recipes for food that is eaten on St.
Joseph’s Day.
Zeppole
We ate these tasty puffs at every St. Joseph’s Table. Some Italians call them St. Joseph’s Sfinge.
1 cup cake flour
½ cup butter
4 eggs
1 cup water
1 tbsp sugar
grated rind of one lemon
1 tbsp brandy
Heat oven to 400º
Filling
16 oz ricotta (preferably Italian ricotta)
1/3 cup of chocolate chips chopped fine
½ cup sugar
grated rind from small orange
Mix well and fill puffs
Put water, salt and butter into a saucepan and bring to a
boil.
Once the butter has melted, add the flour all at once and
mix until the dough leaves the side of the pan.
Remove from heat and allow to cool a little before adding
the eggs one at a time, blending well after each egg.
Add sugar and lemon peel and mix.
Place a tablespoonful onto a
greased cookie sheet at 3-inch intervals
Bake in 400º oven for 10 minutes, then reduce heat to
325ºbaking 30 minutes longer.
Cool for 30 minutes while
preparing filling
Before filling, cut the top off each puff. Fill and replace
the top. Sprinkle with confectioners’ sugar before serving.
Spaghetti with Bread Crumbs
The bread crumbs sprinkled on top of the spaghetti is said
to represent the sawdust that would have covered the floor in St. Joseph’s home.
1 pound spaghetti
2 – 28 oz cans of Italian tomatoes pureed
4 tbsp olive oil
6 garlic cloves chopped fine
1 medium onion cut into quarters
6 basil leaves or 1 tbsp dried basil
1 bulb fresh fennel
1 tsp dried oregano
Pinch of salt
¼ tsp fresh ground black pepper
¼ tsp red pepper flakes
4 cans sardines skinless and boneless
Grandma’s breadcrumbs
Core the fresh fennel and cut into small pieces, discarding
the leaves.
Take a piece of cheesecloth and wrap around the fennel,
onion and basil forming a ball that will be lowered into the tomatoes. Heat
olive oil in stock pot and add garlic. Stir until the garlic has released its
flavor into the oil. Add tomatoes and fennel ball. Bring to a boil stirring
slowly. Lower heat and simmer slowly uncovered. Add salt and pepper.
Cook slowly for 3 or more hours. Before serving, remove
fennel ball and discard. Drain the 4 cans of skinless & boneless sardines
Add sardines to sauce
Stir to break up sardines
Simmer for 15 minutes
Cook spaghetti
Toss with sauce
Sprinkle with bread crumb
Fava Beans
The fava bean is
always served in some manner on St. Joseph’s Day
because, during the drought that plagued Italy, only the fava bean grew.
Italians call it the “Lucky” bean.
1 lb. dried fava beans
1 medium onion chopped
4 cloves garlic chopped fine
3 basil leaves
chopped bunch of Italian parsley, stems removed and heads chopped
1/4 cup olive oil
pinch of salt freshly ground black pepper to taste
Saute onions and garlic in olive oil until the onion turns transparent Add the basil and parsley and heat through. Add to beans. Salt and pepper to taste. Serve in bowls.
1 medium onion chopped
4 cloves garlic chopped fine
3 basil leaves
chopped bunch of Italian parsley, stems removed and heads chopped
1/4 cup olive oil
pinch of salt freshly ground black pepper to taste
Saute onions and garlic in olive oil until the onion turns transparent Add the basil and parsley and heat through. Add to beans. Salt and pepper to taste. Serve in bowls.
Bread crumbs
4 cups bread crumbs
¼ cup Italian parsley stems
removed and leaves chopped
4 stalks of fresh basil stems removed and leaves chopped
4 tbsp olive oil
¼ cup freshly grated cheese
2 tsp salt
2 tsp freshly ground black pepper
We only made bread crumbs with stale leftover bread. Today I
will take a loaf of Italian bread and break it up into pieces. Spray a cookie
sheet with olive oil and place it in a preheated oven at 250° until thoroughly
dried, 1 ½ - 2 hours.
Crumble with your hands or a food processor.
Put 1 tbsp oil in sauté pan. Heat oil and add 1 cup bread
crumbs. Cook, stirring constantly
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